Counseling 101 Part One
Well Jen mostly clubs, bars or off the street.
Rodney have you tried a different approach like a grocery store, library or even other ladies in your field?
So what is is you're looking for? Why stop the problem if you re not ready to settle down with one person?
Well to be honest I don't know Jen, I guess you can boil it down to being scared. Man did I just say that? Not really scared more so, I don't want to hurt woman. And that's my problem. I seem to has this instant connection that makes these woman bow to anything,
So are you diagnosing your problems or am I?
No, do you think somehow I enjoy the rush, or thought of revenge.
Its okay for a man to be scared to love again especially if the reason of your past failed relationships were the reasons you commented on earlier. You just have to take it slow.
(As the conversation grew so did the night and this man was talking for more than an hour. I felt he needed this vent and I wanted to be there for him, but it was time to get home, as I had an long drive backuoed with a early morning.)
Excuse me Rodney, I don't mean to interrupt but I have to end this session.
Its becoming extremely late and I cant be alone with you in the office without someone else around, and clearly since we closed 2 hours ago, I think we ought to wrap it up.
But I have documented everything and will update Lisa on everything as soon as. Is that okay?
Oh yes definitely, as he begins to grab his bags. I definitely don't want to be the reason you get in trouble or none the less have to explain to your husband why you're so late.
Excuse me, husband? what makes you think I'm married?
Well Jen I figured you're an beautiful woman whose quite good at her job, I perhaps i just made a assumption. Sorry if I offended you. (As he stands and begins towards the door) Hope to see you around. Thank you.
As Jen watched him walk out the door, she sat in her chair grabbing her stomache. Something was wrong, she didn't know what? All she new the session went great but Rodney's energy and aggressiveness was a spiritual alert.